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Discipleship & Home Groups

St Edmund's Church Living Well: Growing Disciples

St Edmund's Church is in the business of growing disciples. We provide a number of opportunities for people to explore the Christian faith.

If you want to know more about being a Christian - click here.

 

 

 

 

 

Discipleship Home Groups
 

There are a number of Discipleship Home Groups around the life of St Edmund's. Either meeting weekly or monthly in homes or at the Living Well. Discipleship Home Groups have an important role in helping people feel part of the church. There are about 45 members of St Edmund's in some form of Discipleship Home Group. They are a great way to get to know a few people really well.

Discipleship Home Groups are the church in miniature.


In 2010-11 the groups are exploring knowing God as Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Click the image to open the Discipleship Home Group leaflet

 

If you want to be part of a Discipleship Home Group have a word with Bob Callaghan (01322 225335) email him or Ally Spreadbridge (01322 281838) or email her.

 Confirmation and Renewal of Vows.

 

If you are interested in being confirmed let Bob Callaghan know by phoning 01322 255335.  

Follow this link if you want more information about confirmation in the Church of England.

 

Click here to find out what it means to be an Anglican. 

 

 

Calling and ministry in the church.

 

As members of the church, we all have a contribution to make to society. Some people are trained and set aside to enable others to minister in both their local community and their place of work. God may be calling you to these or other ministries. The calling will be appropriate to your gifts and abilities and equally to do with God's purposes for creation.

 

 

You may feel that God is calling you to minister in one of the ways described in the section Ministry in the Church of England;  explore these possibilities, but please do remember that all Christians are called to serve God with their gifts.
We are all, ultimately, in full-time service for God. Give yourself time to consider all this.

 

 

The Church of England has a site just for people who want to explore vocation a bit more - take a look by clicking on the logo on the left.

 

Within St Edmund's there are many ways to express your ministry and calling. As part of the Diocese of Rochester there are formal expressions of this as Pastoral Assistant, Reader or Evangelist, as well as ordained ministry.The Diocese regularly runs events to help people discern their vocation. If you would like to know more talk to Bob Callaghan or Ally Spreadbridge.

 

 

People exploring vocation and ministry

 

At St Edmund's people there are always people exploring vocation and ministry. In the autumn of 2007 Sharon Earl, Joyce Gibson and Pam Turley began their training as Pastoral Assistants. At the same time Nicola Earl begins training as a Reader with the army. Part of her training will be based here at St Edmund’s.

 

A number of others are continuing to explore their vocation. If you want to talk about how God may be calling you - have a word with Bob Callaghan or Ally Spreadbridge.

 

 

 

The Diocese provides regular opportunities to explore vocation and ministry. Click here to be taken to the vocation page on the Diocesan Website

 

 

'Arrival Days' are for anyone who wants to engage in a process that enables them to grow in the Christian faith and in their understanding of what it means to be a Christian.

The day is broken into four workshops which look at four questions: Where am I? Who am I? How do I learn? How do I worship?

 

 

An 'It's Your Calling Day' is the next step. This day is aimed at helping people explore the call of God in their own lives, through looking at biblical characters, the saints and ourselves. It will build on the work done at an Arrival Day and it will involve people participating in some group work, as well as personal reflection.

 

 

Details of current courses from Bob or Ally.

 

As you think about your ministry, you may find the following poems and prayers helpful:

 

 

Lord, you call us to be story-tellers:

planting your explosive news into our defended lives;

locating us in the script of your human history.

 

 

You call us to be trailblazers:

living in your future that we receive only as gift;

subverting the fixed, fated world of low horizons.

 

 

You call us to be weavers: tracing, stretching, connecting the knotted threads;

gathering up unravelling, disconnected lives.

 

 

You call us to be fools – for Christ’s sake:

bearing life’s absurdities and incongruities;

puncturing our seriousness and grandiosity.

 

 

You call us to be hosts:

welcomers of the sacred, intimate, transfiguring;

lavish celebrants of our communities and homecomings.

 

 

You call us to be poets: artists and illuminators of inner space; naming, invoking, heralding your ineffable presence.

 

 

You call us to be gardeners: sowers, cultivators, nurturers of fragile lives;

benefactors of your gratuitous harvest.

 

 

You call us to be conductors celebrating polyphony, coaxing symphony; orchestrating the praise of your inhabited creation;

 

 

Lord, you lavish gifts on all whom you call.

Strengthen and sustain us and all ministers of your church, that in the range and diversity of our vocation, we may be catalysts of your kingdom in the world, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen

 

 

Roger Spiller (1944– )

 

 

Father, I know you love me and have plans for me.

But sometimes I am overwhelmed by the thought of my future. Show me how to walk forward one day at a time. May I take heart while I search openly, learn all about the choices, listen to others for advice, and pay attention to my own feelings. By doing these things, may I hear your call to live a life that will let me love as only I can, and allow me to serve others with the special gifts you have given me. I ask this through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen

 
 
PRIESTLY DUTIES
Written for Eric Delve 23.5.96
 
What should a priest be?
All things to all -
male, female and genderless
What should a priest be?
reverent and relaxed
vibrant in youth
assured through the middle years
divine sage when ageing
 
What should a priest be?
accessible and incorruptible
abstemious, yet full of celebration,
informed, but not threateningly so,
and far above
the passing soufflé of fashion

What should a priest be?
an authority on singleness
Solomon-like on the labyrinth
of human sexuality
excellent with young marrieds,
old marrieds, were marrieds, never
marrieds, shouldn’t have marrieds,
those who live together, those who live
apart, and those
who don’t live anywhere
respectfully mindful of senior
citizens and war veterans,
familiar with the ravages of arthritis,
osteoporosis, post-natal depression,
anorexia, whooping-cough and nits.
 
What should a priest be?
all-round family person
counsellor, but not officially because
of the recent changes in legislation,
teacher, expositor, confessor,
entertainer, juggler,
good with children, and
possibly sea-lions,
empathetic towards pressure groups
 
What should a priest be?
on nodding terms with
Freud, Jung, St John of the Cross,
The Scott Report, The Rave Culture,
The Internet, the Lottery, BSE, and
Anthea Turner,
pre-modern, fairly modern,
post-modern, and, ideally,
Secondary-modern -
if called to the inner city
 
What should a priest be?
charismatic, if needs must,
but quietly so,
evangelical, and thoroughly
meditative, mystical, but not
New Age.
Liberal, and so open to other voices,
traditionalist, reformer and revolutionary
and hopefully, not on medication
unless for an old sporting injury.
 
Note to congregations:
If your priest actually fulfils all of the above, and then enters the pulpit one Sunday morning wearing nothing but a shower-cap, a fez, and declares: ‘I’m the King and Queen of Venus, and we shall now sing the next hymn in Latvian, take your partners, please’. –
Let it pass.
 
Like you and I,
they too sew the thin thread of humanity,
Remember Jesus in the Garden -
beside Himself?
 
So, what does a priest do?
mostly stays awake
at Deanery synods
tries not to annoy the Bishop
too much
visits hospices, administers comfort,
conducts weddings, christenings -
not necessarily in that order,
takes funerals
consecrates the elderly to the grave
buries children, and babies,
feels completely helpless beside
the swaying family of a suicide.
 
What does a priest do?
tries to colour in God
uses words to explain miracles
which is like teaching
a millipede to sing, but
even more difficult.
 
What does a priest do?
answers the phone
when sometimes they’d rather not
occasionally errs and strays
into tabloid titillation,
prays for Her Majesty’s Government
 
What does a priest do?
tends the flock through time,
oil and incense,
would secretly like each PCC
to commence
with a mud-pie making contest
sometimes falls asleep when praying
yearns, like us, for
heart-rushing deliverance
 
What does a priest do?
has rows with their family
wants to inhale Heaven
stares at bluebells
attempts to convey the mad love of God
would like to ice-skate with crocodiles
and hear the roses when they pray.
 
How should a priest live?
 
How should we live?
 
As priests,
transformed by The Priest
that death prised open
so that he could be our priest
martyred, diaphanous and
matchless priest.

What should a priest be?
What should a priest do?
How should a priest live?
 
Stewart Henderson From ‘Limited Edition’ published by Plover Books